The ones parents experiment with?
The ones some plan for…
And rush to grow up,
To get it right with the other ‘younger’ kids!
Everything is tried on the eldest first.
Whether it is good or bad,
The eldest is going to get it first…
Not the one to get it last!
That comes after the eldest…
Has to grow up fast!
Blamed for something that was not done.
Doing chores while the younger ones have fun.
Being held accountable,
And being told to become more responsible!
Getting sick?
Forget it.
Pretending not to be,
Is what the elder one…
Chooses the younger ones not to see!
He or she has to prove how strong he or she has to be!
And making demands the eldest has to do.
They know when they’ve been ignored like a pair of old shoes!
And don’t be a male in a family of females.
There is nothing right the eldest one can do!
The younger ones will accuse the eldest.
And get away with it too!
Like lieing about what the eldest one does.
Because the eldest one,
Is the one born that everyone likes to pick on…
To abuse and use!
Until the eldest one decides to leave the nest…
To do what he or she chooses to do best.
Growing older alone…
And finding themselves in a home,
The eldest one had said…
Never again they would return,
To hear the bitching, groaning and moans.
And finding themselves with no one there,
To care what the eldest does.
With who…
Or if anyone is there to share!
But…
It is soooo peaceful!
‘Thank you,
Father God!
THIS has indeed been earned! ‘