you need to start with
recognizing your sin.
Withholding
forgiveness
is a sin
in God’s eyes.
Confess your guilt,
and ask God to
remove the trespass.
Then start to pray
for the right spirit.
Tell God you forgive them.
Speak it out loud
instead of in your mind.
Speaking something
audibly has a powerful
effect on your heart.
Finally, go to the
person and extend
grace and mercy.
It will do wonders
for your soul.